Friendship

Friends are important in our life. 

Friends are the one who know you well but still love you. 

During childhood, we could make friends easily by just say "Hi" and we could play together happily. All things are good. 

During Primary School, all our classmates can be our good friends unless you are shy one. We could build a strong friendship during that time because all of us were young and pure. We would quarrel easily but it's temporary. We could say I don't want to play with you anymore or "我不要跟你好", but after a while, we played together again. The one who we dislike always been forgiven by us easily during this time. This is because we treasure those good times. 

I got a lot of good friends during Primary school. Fortunately, we still have some gathering now. I can see that everyone is growing, changing and becoming better person through every reunion. I'm blessed and happy to have this kind of friendships. It's awesome when you have Friendship which started from childhood that survive into adult years. 

During High school, maybe all of your classmate are still your friends but this time you would only have a bunch of good friends. You had a gang this time. A strong friendship would be built up within your gang. This time, you would do many crazy things with your gang. Eating in the class, Skip Classes, Skip School, Teasing Teachers, Joining Clubs, Performances, Hang Out, Gossips about Crush, Group Study for Exams and etc. 

7 sistars are formed during high school. Some of us were classmates and all of us are in the same church. So all of us would meet at there every weekend. I'm blessed to have all of you. We had a lot of memories. We did perform cover of "Love Story by Taylor Swift" during Chinese Club dinner. 

That was really unexpected because not all of us know music but we did a nice performance. We would always go to Esther house and practice. It's the best thing ever when you can play music together with your good friends. 

As time passes, something bad happened in this friendships. And Of course, we did quarrel. We hated each other then we had separated into small group. But at last, we all apologised to each other, we repented and expressed our feelings. Then we became good friends again. It's because We realised that we are inseparable, we miss each other and we need each other. 

"Simple friendships end with an argument, but real friendships start with one." 

"Real friends won't ever let an argument get in the way of their friendship, they are not afraid to apologise and always forgive."

When you have an argument with your friends right, remember express your feeling and tell them what do you feel, what do you think. You have to express it to them if you care about them. Because nobody knows if you don't express it.  

Nobody can read your mind everytime even though you guys stick together everyday. 

Now we had entered into different universities. This time 7 of us are really have been separated. 7 of us have different life stories, so we decide to make a blog. A blog about 7 of us and here it is. 

Although we are in different places now, distance makes us more cherish each other and make our friendships stronger. 

"Sometime people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together" 

"True friends never apart. Maybe in distance but not in heart" 

Moreover, Friendship is built on trust. If you don't have trust, the friendship will crumble. Trust is easy to build up but once it's broken, it's really hard to build up again. So you should choose your friends wisely as they can affect your life. 

"Choose when you can choose"

"Remember this: Friends are supposed to make you feel better."

I would tell you that you should Make friends with those who will support you, who can have deep conversation with, who can lend you shoulder, who can give you a hug when you are crying, who will give you positive vibes , and believe in you. 

"A friend in need is a friend indeed"

When you grow up, you will realise that you have lesser and lesser friends but for those who still stay, they are real friends. A realisation only comes with time is that knowing which friends are real is much more important than having a lot of them. 

Maybe now your good friends are far away from you in distance, but whenever you need them, they will always be there. True friends will be at your side through it all. 

Throughout your life, you may lose some good friends through distance. Friendship is just like Love, you have to maintain it and manage it nicely sometime. Sometime you will lose them, maybe because they change or they have new friends. It's ok, You don't have to blame them. 

I know this is really sad and heartbroken. The worst feeling ever when good friends become strangers. You will feel really down and a lot of good memories are lingering in your mind. You will feel like wanna talk to them but you know that they just don't want to talk to you. Maybe this is normal. Why do I say so? People will change. Everybody has their own choice and not everyone will stay by your side until the end. Throughout your life journey, some people will leave you. 

Many times, there's no right or wrong. It's just depend on how you think about it. If they leave you, just remember the good part of the friendships and move on. 

Understand that Friends come and go but with a precious few you should hold on. The older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young

"People come and go. The best will always stay" 

We will make new friends every year but there was never any substitute for those old friends. 

If you have one good friend or more than that in your life , you are lucky enough. You are blessed and you should say thank you to God. 

Dear Friends, no matter you already left me or forget me or what, I just want to say that I'm glad to meet you, thanks for those good parts, and hope you know this! 

Thank you so much. God bless. 

Hope you guys enjoy reading this and wish you have nice friendships too! 

By Ah Shu