Gugus Reunion

28.12.2015

我们中学的时候变成了一群姐妹 

我们同岁 我们也是同个地方聚会

中学毕业后 我们去不同的大学读书了 各有各的生活

三年后 我们7个终于回来相聚了 

Mavis AhJin Yina Lynnie AhShu AhDer Qee

Yina 0220 

这位就是我们的大姐 性格活泼开朗 喜欢唱歌 

现在就读Business Admin  

AhShu 0306

这位就是我们的二姐 性格开朗 喜欢玩飞盘 

现在就读Chemical Engjneering 

AhDer 0523

这位就是我们的三姐 性格文静 喜欢画画

现在就读Digital Animation 

Qee 0527

这位就是四姐 性格好动活泼开朗 喜欢运动

现在就读 Business Admin

Mavis 0604

这位就是5姐 性格开朗自信 喜欢看小说

现在就读Accounting and Finance

AhJin 1021

这位是6姐 性格单纯善良 喜欢逛街 

现在就读 Business Admin

Lynnie 1125

这位是小妹 性格活泼开朗搞笑 喜欢自拍

现在就读 Accounting and Finance 

我们的聚集点就选在 La Bistro, Kemena Hotel Bintulu Sarawak

La Bistro 是以西餐中餐为主

这里的气氛不错 灯光也很好 

为了这个难得的相聚 我们就决定买蛋糕来庆生

Happy Reunion Gugus 

谢谢Yina帮我们订的蛋糕

Oreo Millie Crepes 

Ordered From Alyse Chua 

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之后我们又去Baba And Siam 第二楼

那里可以听人家唱歌 或者是 自己要点歌唱K也可以 

Baba And Siam 是以泰国马来西亚餐为主 

这里室内的气氛舒适 也可以来喝酒 整体不错

我们的友情从不好变好

中学时期 我们很常黏在一起 

学校 补习 聚会 很多的时间我们都是一起的

中间我们发生了许多纠纷 吵架 勾心斗角 许多不合的时候

友情起起落落 有时候彼此讨厌对方这样

到后来 我们都到不同的大学念书了 

距离 让我们之间的友情变好

时间让我们之间更珍惜彼此

成长让我们明白以前的我们是多么的幼稚 

我们都为之前的事情彼此道歉过 

感谢神 再次给与我们机会 让我们之间的友情再次变好

不是每个友情都可以这样

曾经的破口漏洞 现在还能渐渐地修补起来

友情是要经营的 不要把他们的好当做理所当然的

没有东西是理所当然的 所以我们都要好好珍惜感恩  

  距离 时间 成长 让我们知道谁是真心朋友

  所以好好珍惜那些真心朋友 不要让他们消失在你的生活里

[ 友谊永固 ] 

不知道 下一次7个人的相聚是几时了  _____

期待2016

距離21歲還有6個月～

這種想要變得更好的心情一天比一天強烈。

今年的心愿總算達成了一半，不錯不錯。

2016年的心愿各位都寫好了嗎？

期待2016的到來～

打算買一本journal做記錄呢呵呵呵。

這些心愿都要寫下來牢牢記住。

我要變得更好～

大家都要變得更好～

今后會常常更新日常生活的小故事喲～

忙中偷闲

Another boring yet busy week.

Tons and tons of assignments.

Final is around the corner.

YET!

I still able to spare some time for 

NAIL ART😝 *不怕死

I think I should have nail art tutorial blog post next time!😁 

Show some love if is acceptable😆

Till next time😘

xo,

J

Be Strong

There has good things and bad things in our life. When life is sweet, say thank you and celebrate. When life is bitter, say thank you and grow. 

Let me share about my experience here.

We will meet some sad things in our life. They hurt and leave scars in your heart. 

" It doesnt matter how tough we are, Trauma always leave a scar, It follow us home, changes our lives. Trauma messes everybody up, But maybe that's the point. All the pain and the fear and the crap. Maybe going through that is what keeps us moving forward. Its what pushes us. Maybe we have to get a little messed up before we can step up -Grey's Anatomy"

No matter what kind of bad thing is, be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve. Sometime you have to forget how you feel and remember what you deserve. Always tell yourself that YOU DESERVE BETTER. 

The saddest thing is sometime you end up never talking to someone who meant the world to you again and that's okay. It happens. At last, you will deal with it and move on. I know it is really sad and heartbroken but i want to tell you that Be Strong. Yes, maybe you can find them back if you want to. But if they are really don't care about you, you can stop it.   

Sometime you got to be your own hero and save your own heart, because sometime the people you cant live without can live without you. 

Not Everything and certainly not Everyone that you lose is a loss , sometime God just decide you deserve better that you think you deserve.

I know letting someone go is not that easy. I know that, But, you have to be willing to lose someone else before losing yourself. You are more important. Stop letting it bother you, Just let it go. 

When you stop chasing the wrong thing, you give the right things a chance to you. Remember that.

I am the one who always overthinking but i realize that Overthinking is the biggest cause of our unhappiness. Overthinking kills happiness. Keep yourself occupied, Keep your mind off things that don't help you, THINK POSITIVE. 

ALWAYS THINK POSITIVELY.

RESPECT YOURSELF

LOVE YOURSELF 

TEACH YOURSELF

ENJOY YOURSELF

Everything will be alright. Everything will be fine at the end. 

FIGHTING !! HOPE THESE WILL HELP YOU ;) GOODNIGHT

瘾

嗨嗨  早啊  大家都过得好吗？

我最近都在赶功课  好累啊

但是我也不忘了追看爱情剧  嘿嘿  

我有一段时间没看爱情连戏剧了  

戒了一阵子  但最近瘾又开始回来了  

咳 我对爱情剧是又爱又恨  

我爱男演员和他们的浪漫同时又恨自己不是女主角  害  

更惨的是看了后还会比较  

痛恨自己为什么不是女主角  

之后也只能狠狠地打醒自己  

告诉自己  这只是一场戏 别做梦了 

害  人比人总是会气死人  

其实  每个女生里面都会有颗少女心

不管她外表有多坚强 多强悍 多man

头脑里都会有想当女主角的想法

每个男生都有责任保护自己女人想当女主角的梦  可以帮她实现那就更好 

最近我一直都在哎声叹气

没什么精神 

可能是看太多爱情剧  哈哈 

期望越高 失望就越大 害

为什么不可以男主角也刚好喜欢我 呜呜

爱情剧常常都让我头脑 我的思绪 不能正常运作  

我已深深 深深的沉睡在戏剧里 咳

人生就是不公平的  

不再期待什么了 呵呵 

祝大家有美好的一天😊 

也祝大家都能找到自己的男女主角😁

xo

J

我的少女时代 Our Times

我的少女时代 Our Times 

大家看这部电影了吗？个人很喜欢这部电影  也觉得这部戏非常好看！ 

这部电影有点类似像那些年我们一起追的女孩 等一个人的咖啡 不过这部比较好看 

哈哈因为里面的台词句句都很中肯 都很有感触 

这部戏让我的少女心再次爆发！哈哈因为里面的男主角也太帅了- 徐太宇

这就是女主角 名叫 林真心

一个单纯善良的女孩 喜欢着欧阳非凡

林真心 喜欢的 欧阳非凡

想当年 我也曾像林真心一样很喜欢着欧阳非凡....  

看到喜欢的人帅帅的样子 我就会很兴奋 

看到喜欢的人 会很想要跟他说话 但是我会很害羞 不敢说话 

看到喜欢的人跟别的女生很好 心里就会很伤心 

这大概每个少女都有经历过的感觉吧 所谓暗恋的感觉  

只是在我喜欢欧阳非凡的过程里面 我并没有遇到徐太宇

这就是男主角-徐泰宇 和 女主角-林真心

徐太宇

在中学时代 想必大家都会有遇过很像徐太宇这样的人- 学校的流氓 不读书 爱逃课的家伙

我的中学学校是有很多个徐太宇这样的人啦 

我有遇到很多个像徐太宇的人 只是没有遇到徐太宇的那颗心 

徐太宇在里面是个痞子 学校的流氓 时常打架 但其实心里却是个很好的男孩 很优秀的男孩 

可以为喜欢的人默默付出很多 是个很好的男孩 

不过 想告诉少女们  电影跟现实差很多哦 哈哈

“长大之后 才知道砸水球比赛第一个所砸的人 不是因为你讨厌他 而是因为你眼里只有他。”

这句给我非常有感触 

以前参加的生日会 生日会里面一定会有水球 然后大家都很喜欢玩砸水球 

以前我砸水球第一个所砸的人 就是砸自己喜欢的人 哈哈哈也许就像上面所说的吧 眼里只有他

“没穿过高中衣服翘过一次课 长大以后会后悔”

这句话也许是对的 哈哈如果没有翘课过 以后会没有什么回忆好说的

以前 就有做过几次吧 哈哈哈我偶尔会翘课

当然选时间翘课咯 哈哈还要看老师是谁 

上课上到一半 跟朋友去厕所 然后走走讲话 到课完为止

上课上到一半 跟朋友说好一起翘这个课 回家去 

上课上到一半 坐朋友的车出去玩 还有去过公共图书馆

林真心和她的姐妹们 

中学时代 是拥有最多群朋友的时代 

哈哈哈哈 在中学里你可以结拜到很多兄弟或者姐妹 他们都会成为你美好的回忆

当然我在中学里面 也有很多姐妹 陪伴我度过我的中学 

开心时 我们一起笑 一起疯

伤心时 她们就会来安慰我

我们也时常在班上吃喝玩乐 老师都很注意我们 因为我们就坐最后一排 哈哈哈

许多的美好的回忆里面都有她们 我想你们了 你们还好吗

“只有我们自己才能决定我们自己的样子”

很多时候 我们自己的样子都是被别人定义出来的

我们很长会被别人的评论 批评 而影响我们自己的样子

我们会因着别人的评论 而要改变自己 变成他们 要跟他们一样好

包括我自己也是这样 时常被别人的评论而影响 

然后这句话就提醒了我 只有自己才能决定自己的样子 而不是别人

做自己最好 当然如果有不好的话 还是要改啊 这样才能变成更好的自己

“喜欢上一个人是不知不觉的”

“他说的每一句话 你都会放在心上”

“原来真的喜欢一个人， 会没有勇气告诉他”

这句话给我也蛮真实的

喜欢上一个人真的会是不知不觉的 不知道几时喜欢上他 你觉得不会喜欢的 可能突然间就会

看到他心会跳很快 看到他会很紧张 看到他会很害羞 

他说的每一句话 都会放在心上 牢牢记住  

喜欢一个人 真的会不敢告诉他 怕告诉他了 不是被拒绝 就是做不了朋友 怕不能再像以前一样

所以有时候就选择默默喜欢一个人  告白这种事 我有做过只是因为想让他知道 

不然就是被他问了 不想再欺骗自己了 所以只好说出自己的心意 

告白这种事当然也有风险的啦 所以要慎重考虑 哈哈哈

“当一个女生说 没事就是有事 没关系就是有关系” 

“她有时候会很难过 却会逞强说自己没事”

对 女生都是这样 不要问为什么 

哈哈哈女生就是很会口是心非 所以男生们要注意点哦 哈哈哈哈 

也许女生就只是想要关心 想要找一个可以看出她真正心情的人 即使她正在伪装

“很久很久以后...我们才知道 当一个女生说她再也不理你的时候 

不是真的讨厌 而是非常非常在乎你”

当一个女生突然很沉默 不理你的时候

这代表她心里已经很失望了 心里非常受伤 受伤到不想理你了 

外表看来 也许你觉得她讨厌你所以才不理你 实际上她非常在乎你 

就因为非常在乎 才会受伤 才会失望 最后才会选择对你沉默   

“给我该给的薪水 放我该放的假 不然就让我辞职 人

不需要待在一个不被重视自己是谁的地方浪费时间”

这句话说得真好

哈哈哈希望以后的工作生活 踏入社会的时候自己也会说出这种话 如果我也被这样对待的话

当然首先你要有一点本事 还有一点成就先 哈哈哈

要记得 对自己好一点 不要亏待自己 

“时间会改变一个人 会改变很多事 但是只有一件事情不会变的 那就是回忆”

我一直都在经历这句话所说的

幼稚园 小学 中学 大学 身边的人一直在变 我自己也一直在变 

一些认识很久的朋友 很好的朋友 也可能因着时间 距离 慢慢变淡

一些曾经很好的友谊 也慢慢失去了 可能因为人变了 想法不同了 

一些可能曾经不说话的 到最后说话了 慢慢建立起友谊 

很多东西都很难说 很多东西都正在改变 

我个人是怀旧的人 所以时常会回忆起往事 哈哈 因为只有回忆能够好想起

有时候你不知道这个人在你的生命里几时会离开你 有可能给你上一堂课过后就离开你了 

所以这时候就要告诉自己 要对别人好一点 好让你在别人的回忆里都是好的

每个人事物都是短暂的 要好好珍惜 好好经营 好好制造美好的回忆 

“谢谢你出现在我的青春里”

谢谢你们出现在我的青春里

虽然我现在上大二了 我遇见不到徐太宇了 不过我的青春还算美好 哈哈哈哈

最后 再次推荐你们去看这部电影 因为真的太好看了 

哈哈哈哈 尤其是少女们 

未来

未来能够做什么？我真的不太清楚自己能够做些什么。很常的时候，我会被别人吐槽，被别人看扁。虽然我的技巧不怎么样。可是感觉很难过的就是被别人看低。然后自信就跟着落下。可是我想做自己喜欢的事。而且我答应自己不要放弃自己喜欢的。不管怎么样。我很感谢那些能够在我低潮时不吐槽我，反而帮我鼓励我的人们。我不会忘记的。不会忘记你们的安慰，也会记得那些伤害我的话语。因为那些都是我的动力。有一天我会找到自己真正想做的事。明天会更好。

Cure for excessive hair loss😆

Hello! I'm back again😄 Today I'm gonna share the cure to my excessive hair loss.. Hahaa! 

Around end of May I get really sick.. Fever, sore throat, flu, ear and nose block(cause me out of balance), short term memories loss(effect of the medicines), and I have no appetite to eat, I only take 3 full mouth to have my medicines.. Doctors give me a tons of Panadols, Tamiflu, ear drop, and antibiotics. It takes me 2 months to fully recover. But after recover from sickness I started to have excessive hair loss! 

I loss this much after every single hair wash😢

Every friends around me also told me I have serious hair loss problem and they notice I'm getting balder and balder😢😢

So I went to a drugstore and the pharmacist there told me is either the side effect of the medicines or malnutrition cause this excessive hair loss. She suggest me to take hair tonic(apply on hair scalp) or take multi-vitamins. She also told take multi-vitamins will take longer time to recover. And yet I still choose to eat multi-vitamins. But after 2 months there are still no obvious result😨

I still loss this much after every single hair wash😢

I thought I'm going be bald soon😨 if I still continue loss my hair..

Until last week I only decided to buy and try hair tonic. MILBON tonic Neo Leaf, Product from Japan and manufactured by MILBON Co,Ltd.

Neo Leaf hair tonic help to strengthen our hair and scalp, and prevent hair loss. It help to cure dandruff too. This tonic can moisture our scalp to maintain it clean and healthy.

Personally can accept the smell. Actually it smell quite nice(if you can accept the smell of plants or herbs). It actually smell like herbs and plants plus a lil bit of mint.. When you apply on your scalp you can feel the cool mint effect.. Hahaha! It is liquid not oily type of tonic.

Pharmacist recommend me to use it twice a day(preferable use after shampoo or bath). I just put a few drop on my hair scalp then massage for 3 mins.

And after a week I was shocked by the result! 😱

The hair loss after a sigle hair wash is obvious become lesser.😆

In a week, Neo Leaf hair tonic help me to prevent excessive hair loss. 

But I have to continue use to grow my healty and shiny hair back! 😁 I am so excited to see the result again after I continue use it for a month. 

To who suffer unhealthy scalp, hair loss or dandruff, you might want to try out Neo Leaf hair tonic!😉 You can get it at Caring drugstore.😊

Hope I help you out of something and wish you all have a nice day!❤️

xo

J

人生低潮时期

人生中会遇到很多难过的事情 比如说

你喜欢的人不喜欢你。

你看见喜欢的人喜欢别人。

你被喜欢的人拒绝。

你错过了一个人。

你看到你很好的朋友跟别人更好的时候。

你被人误会的时候。

你被重视的人不被信任的时候。

你被在乎的人冷落。

你被在乎的人忽冷忽热的对待。

你被在乎的人突然疏远。

你被在乎的人不重视。

你对曾经很好的朋友失去了信任。

你发现你再怎样努力挽回 都没有用的那一刻。

你发现你们已经回不去以前的那一刻。

人生低潮的时候，在乎的人并没有来关心你。

你最希望他出现的时候，他没有出现。

在你需要他的时候，他完全没有出现的那一刻。

当你发现到头来你还是一个人的时候。

念了以上的事物 有没有感触呢？😭

在你的人生里应该会遇到一些这样的事物… 

想说的是 要学会放下 

人生最大的功课 可以说是 放下

如果记得太牢这些伤心事 最后你只会更痛苦罢了 那不如让自己善恶一点 留多一点时间去寄望 自己将来遇到更对的人 一起记下更多快乐的气味 😀😃😄

生命中总有那么一段时光 充满不安 充满感伤 充满伤害 可是除了勇敢面对 我们别无选择 当你感觉人生没那么如意 很低潮的时候 当你对自己的表现没那么满意 当你对自己爱的人或自己感到失望 当你觉得自己再也坚持不下去的时候 请记得对自己说 没关系 我们都是这样长大的💪🏻

再大的伤痛 睡一觉把它忘了。背着昨天追赶明天 会累坏了每一个当下，边走边忘，才能感受每一个迎面而来的幸福 。

人生吧 我们会碰到很多很不开心的事 遇到很多不好的人 但偶尔也会发生很好的事哦 一定会有好事发生 我们就是为了遇见那些好事才努力活下来

加油！好吗？

Life's Tragedy

By Paul Laurence Dunbar

It may be misery not to sing at all,

And to go silent through the brimming day;

It maybe misery never to be loved,

But deeper grief than these beset the way.

To sing this perfect song,

And by a half-tone lost the key, 

There the potent sorrow, there the grief,

The pale, sad staring of Life's Tragedy.

To have come near to the perfect love,

Not the hot passion of untempered youth,

But that which lies aside it's vanity,

And gives, for thy trusting worship, truth.

This, this indeed is to be accursed,

For if we mortals love, or if we sing,

We count our joys not by what we have,

But by what kept us from that perfect thing.

Poem sharing😉

xo

J

My free time😁

For this sem, I left 2 classes and 1 online course. I just finish one final exam 2 weeks ago, it is a super duper busy week. Now is totally opposite, I got only 3 classes (total 6 hours) a week.. So free!! Too free until I don know what to do.. Hahaha! 

Recently I started to watch Game of Thrones.. A television series.. A lot of friends recommend me to watch long time ago especially male friends.. But I reject because I thought the story would be another boring story about war.. BUT I am so wrong!! GOT(Game of Thrones) is really really nice!👍 And I finally understand why all my friends(male) are so crazy over GOT.. Except the actors and actresses are stunning there also a lot of 18+ scenes. Hahahaha! 🈲🔞 

Now I recommend you to watch "Game of Thrones". ❤️ Hahaha~ 

Personally love this series. Story is so unpredictable! And this story is so real.. It also reflect our world today..

My own thoughts : Lucky people always say "I would to be the good guy." Unlucky people say "I won't be bad guy if I got the chance to be the good one..". Life is unfair.😔 World is so corrupted. No one want to be a good guy anymore😤 because " kindness will get you kill". And is true, the bad guy always have longer live than the good guy. Bad guy live because he saved by the kindness, and good guy get killed because of the kindness. Such an ironic!

Beside watching series I also force myself to read books.. Haahaa!! Unbelievable~~ is a hard for me, because I don like to read, but no choice my language are getting worst!😢😢 Detective types of books always got my eyes.. I started to read one which I bought from Big Bad Wolf books fair..  The books there are in good quality and very cheap! Hahaha! I need to develope a reading lifestyle!😆 

And this is my nail of the week! (Out of nowhere.. I know😂) Hahaha! Not much tools needed.. Tools is also easy to get.. You just need nail polish and toothpicks. Then you can start design your own pattern! Easy right?😉 Hahaha! I got stripes, triangle, pokka dots, square pattern one my left hand and alphabet, love, stripes, pokka dots, circle one my right hand.. I will learn more skills, do more pattern next time and share it with you guys😄 stay tuned! 😉

Hope you enjoy reading❤️

And wish you have a nice day ahead😊

xo

J

Depression

When you are depressed, What will you do? Your mind is a powerful thing. When your mind is full of negative thoughts, you will become negatively. When your mid is full of positive thoughts, you will become more optimistic and your life starts to change. 

I would like to share some quotes from Facebook for you and I will elaborate some. It might be useful for you when you are depressed. 

Take the long view . Think about if ten years later , will you care about that again? Definitely, No. It just a small matter and you might be regret if you keep caring about those bad things and don't enjoy your life. 

Stay true to our vision. See it again in our mind. Sometime it's hard to achieve our dream. Maybe we work very hard , we put many effort on it but we don't get what we want. Don't give up. Our greatness weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is to try just one more time. 

Sometime we are depressed because we compare ourself to others. We may think that they are better than us, everything is better but why Im so sucks. Bad in everything. Think positive. When you admire someone, he or she might admires you too at the same time. This happens because we all are unique, we can't be replaced, we all have our own ability, talent, good and bad. 

When you are depressed, get outside, move and breathe. This not only can refresh your mind but will make your mood better. This is useful too when you are stress about exams. 

Don't let ego get in the way of our development. We all always let ego get in the way of our development due to our weakness. We always think that we are not good enough, we are weak, nothing good happen, can't do anything nicely. We fed up with that and our development stops there. And you see other people are keep improving. 

For Those who are better than you , they must put many effort on it But you don't know. You just know their achievement not their background. 

So tell ourself that keep our head up,I've on and work hard. Remember Hard work can beat talent. 

There is no such thing as failure. There is only education. Our life will not be good at all, God will give us some failures and some hardships. Why? Because those things can make us grow up and learn something that is valuable from those lessons. Everything that happen on you is God's arrangement. Learn from mistakes, Learn from failures. 

Change our rules for being happy. Sometime our happiness are controlled by some people which are important to us. So, sometime if they hurt us or leave us, we might feel very down , or very sad , and lost our happiness. 

We shouldn't let our happiness be controlled by someone but controlled by ourself. So how? We can do something that we like , do something that can make you happy and surround yourself with the people that you like. 

At some point in your life, you will go through a break up. Don't worry, things will get better. 

Time heals everything

focus on your future 

Don't die living in the past. 

Sometime you are depressed and lost, you need help. I would like to recommend you to find your parents for help. Because they love you the most, they had many life experiences, and they must help you. They will give you useful helps and what you need. 

Just Forget the Past and Move On. Maybe you had a lot of failures before, but just Give our best work now. Past is passed. 

Hope these are useful to you. And let's us think positive, be positive, and be better and better. Cheers! ❤️

#JH